“It’s rainy and cloudy outside today, which is such a bummer. I can’t even go for a walk, and I have so much homework to do. Ugh, it feels like today is going to be the worst day ever!” Did that make you feel gloomy? It definitely did for me. But how about we switch that mindset? Yes, it’s a rainy day, but that makes it a perfect opportunity to watch movies like *Twilight* to match the weather. If you look closer, the clouds are diffusing the light and making the leaves on the trees look greener. I have homework to tackle today, but with the rain falling outside, it’s the ideal setting to light a candle, play some Lofi music, and get my work done. It almost makes me feel like a Hogwarts student! Today can actually turn into a nice, cozy day. Much better, right?
This is an example of switching your mindset to a romanticized life. Ever since I picked up this advice from one of my favorite podcasters, Tam Kaur, Romanticize your life; life has felt so much sweeter.
Why Should I?
Your outlook on life greatly influences how you experience it. Approaching the natural events that occur in our lives with a positive perspective allows us to appreciate the small things, making it feel like we are treating ourselves daily. Spoiler alert: we are treating ourselves daily, and by romanticizing this self-care, our days can feel less stressful and more enjoyable.
Now How?
Okay, good. Now that we understand why I romanticize my life, let’s discuss how I do it. Imagine you are always in a movie where the main character is you. Would you be interested in watching that movie? Back in high school, I wasn’t interested in the movie I was starring in. Every day felt like it was on repeat, except for the times I went out or went on vacation, which were only a small part of my year at that time. This feeling continued into college, where I spent the year feeling dull until summer break or a party came along. However, normal days can be incredibly beautiful.
For instance, waking up and making coffee before class while listening to your favorite soft music and scrolling through Pinterest. Take a moment to notice how beautiful the sky looks or how comfortable your pajamas feel. Before studying, put on a nice outfit and spritz a lovely fragrance. Romanticizing your life is all about setting the scene in your own grand movie. Noticing all the elements, characters, smells, tastes, and emotions that are intertwined at this moment.
Romanticizing not only makes you happier, but it can also elevate you to your higher self. By living with intention and visualizing your life positively, you can create your dream life. So go out today and appreciate the beauty in both simple and complex moments. You only live in this movie once, so live as if you are trying to win an Oscar!
Carmen Watts 